Marketing: What You Really Need Vs. What You Think You Want

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Clients approach me all the time saying, “Tell mewhen the marketing research overdrive response
what I need to do to market my services.” I ask,kicks in. You figure if you just gather enough
“What do you mean?” They say, “Tell me howinformation, you’ll feel they have a grasp on
to blog/podcast/what to say on my website,” (fill inmarketing. Actually, the opposite is true. The more you
your own specific here). That’s when I knowresearch, the more overwhelmed you become. The
they lack the one thing without which they’llonly way to alleviate the overwhelm is to start trying
never really make it.things out and experiencing the results to understand
It’s easy to hung up on details. Marketing advicenot just what works, but what works for you.
often makes it even more enticing, promising you3. Give to get.
phenomenal results if you only do X. The “X”Too often in marketing a professional practice, we
changes every few weeks and usually says moremeasure success in terms of results. Results are
about the person who wrote the advice than whatcritical, of course, but in a high-trust exchange, such as
you really need to dod. Since advice is ever-presenthappens when you sell a high-ticket service, very often
and ever-changing, for anyone trying to keep up itthe prospect will not buy on first contact. If you walk
always feels like marketing is a big overwhelming thingaway after an initial “no,” or “sorry, not
that can never be fully tackled. In this dread, they areinterested,” you are walking away from great
both right and wrong.opportunities. The practice of giving to get, wherein you
Marketing methods ARE endless. You can spend ademonstrate your expertise by giving people either
lifetime learning about them, implementing them,free or low-fee access to it, is a great way to start
collecting data as to their efficacy and tweaking yourbuilding a reputation.
results. For the service professional (not the4. Build mastery in your craft. It takes being good to
professional marketer) it is not necessary to learnknow you’re good.
them all. So the good news is, while marketingVery often I hear from clients, “I fee like, ‘Who am
information is endless, your grasp of it need not beI to be charging those high fees?’” Often they
complete.want a pep talk when they ask that. Instead, I ask
What you really DO need is marketing confidence. It isthem, “What would it take for you to know without
a key ingredient without which your marketing will fail.a doubt that you MUST be charging that?” Too
Of the over 700 people that signed up for a recentoften we want to coddle ourselves and others when
series of teleclasses I did on the subject, nearly everywe don’t feel “good enough.” But in order
one either during the classes or via e-mail told me theto really build your marketing confidence, you must be
same thing: “I am very confident in life but when itexcellent at what you do. So what’s that going
comes time to marketing, I get uncertain and afraid.”to take? How must you hone your skills, what training
In short, they lack marketing confidence. It’smust you attend, how many people must you work
different that regular, “garden-variety” confidence.with until you know you’re excellent without any
But what to do to build it up?hesitation? Once you know the answer to that, set out
The methods I had participants employ were simplea path to accomplish it.
and gave results right away.5. Be continuously challenged.
1. Get serious about what your REAL goals are.Piggybacking on #4, it helps to get out of your comfort
9 times out of 10, your goals are not what you thinkzone at every opportunity. You’ve heard the old
they are. Going after artificial goals will wreak havocmetaphor about building muscles with increasingly
on your marketing confidence (and, hence, yourheavier weights. If you want to be a highly
results) because you’ll never have the steam tosought-after professional, respected in your field, you
keep on going until you get them. If you’re goingneed to push yourself all the time. What’s it
after goals that don’t make you jump out ofgoing to take?
bed in the morning and enthusiastically cheer, “Time6. Research. Then do it your way.
to get to work on those goals!” (and I’m onlyPeople seem to have an insatiable urge to “just do
half kidding there) then you’re not working ona little more research.” While this is great, very often
your real goals.it’s detrimental, as I explained above. So if you
2. Do it, don’t think about doing it.must research, please know this. Everyone who gives
Probably the most critical thing you can do to build youryou marketing advice is telling you only PART of the
marketing confidence is DO things. So many serviceinformation. The part they can’t possibly tell you
professionals get into paralysis by what they consideris how it’s going to work for you.